Out of all the people you've been out with

[emmab]

You know if theres chemistry i think from the start which is what ur saying, all i would advise is dont rush into anything just for comfort of having 'the other half'. Keep fishing and chuck back the ones u dont like ha ha ha i sound like Ricky feckin lake One day you may come across the love of your life but you are already married to someone that you rushed into if you get my drift..........choose carefully xxxxxxxx and good luck

[li'l Sonz]

Originally Posted by Dj Britalian

I was with a girl for about 5 years, just after i left school & started a job as a YT. She joined the company about 1 year after i started. We began seeing each other, for the first 2/3 years things were great, shortly after this period things began to get very stale indeed. You know when you just get into a rut & things become boring. A few more years later something happend which made us both realise that things were not getting any better so we split.

I sometimes think to myself that it may have been a waste of 5 years of my life but i suppose its all part of lifes learning curve

If was fookin horrible, i was miserable for about a year after it & thought that things would never be the same.

Well things changed & i am now happily hooked up wiv SJ & things are going great

awwwwwwwwww, that's well good!

Originally Posted by emmab

You know if theres chemistry i think from the start which is what ur saying, all i would advise is dont rush into anything just for comfort of having 'the other half'. Keep fishing and chuck back the ones u dont like ha ha ha i sound like Ricky feckin lake One day you may come across the love of your life but you are already married to someone that you rushed into if you get my drift..........choose carefully xxxxxxxx and good luck

Yeah, there's no harm in holding back a little even if you are smitten from the start..... you gota make sure, defo sure!

xx

[S-J]

Originally Posted by Dj Britalian

I sometimes think to myself that it may have been a waste of 5 years of my life but i suppose its all part of lifes learning curve

If was fookin horrible, i was miserable for about a year after it & thought that things would never be the same.

Well things changed & i am now happily hooked up wiv SJ & things are going great

Ahhhh bless... No matter how bad things appear and how much you are hurting and things feel so grimm well its amazing how you can find sunshine in the most strangest of places at the time when you need it the most!!!

"Ying & Yang" but we knew....

S-J x

P.S. Tis as you said the other night on here Gaz, you cant get bloody rid of me now can ya?? Bless Ya!!

[sweet sensation]

Originally Posted by Ed

How many were you 'really' into from the start?

It depends in which way you mean?

For a fair few of my relationships it was a lust thing initially, especially when I was in my late teens and early 20's, then things progressed or not whichever the case may be!

I have gone out with guys who I havent been 'really' into, just for the sake of it but I was a bit of a screw up when I was younger and made some not so great choices and did stay in relationships for too long even when I knew they were over and all my feelings had gone but then I think this statement says how I feel

Originally Posted by Dee

I think everyone I have been out with has contributed to who I am today, so I don't have any regrets about any relationship, maybe thanking them for teaching me something or other, wether it be a lesson or a good bit of knowledge that I will keep in my mind for a lifetime.

Youve got to get it wrong a few times to understand and realise what you can and cannot live with or without I never believed in 'The One' thought it was all a load of bollox, thought you had to get to know someone and grow with them before you could have those feelings! Well you can probably guess what Im going to say next!!

When I first got talking to Pauly on the internet we clicked straight away and this is going to sound so corny but I kinda knew Id met the guy I was going to marry but we were both with other people, so we just became friends. We got closer and closer and one day I realised I had fallen in love with him before Id even met him (as some would have seen a thread in 2002 lol )

I cant even begin to explain how right I feel being with him, even when we argue I cant imagine not being with him and before you reply with a Ive done it for you

My point being lol is that there are many ways of being into people but when you click, you just know even if you dont get together right away

[amymars]

check out the osa romances! wit woo!

[Saysay]

Originally Posted by sweet sensation

When I first got talking to Pauly on the internet we clicked straight away and this is going to sound so corny but I kinda knew Id met the guy I was going to marry but we were both with other people, so we just became friends. We got closer and closer and one day I realised I had fallen in love with him before Id even met him (as some would have seen a thread in 2002 lol )

I cant even begin to explain how right I feel being with him, even when we argue I cant imagine not being with him and before you reply with a Ive done it for you

My point being lol is that there are many ways of being into people but when you click, you just know even if you dont get together right away

Aww thats lovely!



Thank the lord (or butty in this case) for OSA!!

[Lozzie]

Well...update. I've come to the conclusion...that blokes are:


Complete arese hole head fucks

Complete stalker-over keen-makes me wanna run out of the door...No ta.

Taken

Or just completely incompatible...




I get on with tonnes of guys. I just like the wrong ones (see above). I don't expect to find "the one" "Oh my god have babies with me". I'm not old enough I don't think. BUT someone to spend time with/all day in bed on a sunday/laugh at wrong stuff/chat bollocks/give me his coat when I'm cold...sleep next to at night......

[Saysay]

Originally Posted by Lozzie

Well...update. I've come to the conclusion...that blokes are:


Complete arese hole head fucks

Complete stalker-over keen-makes me wanna run out of the door...No ta.

Taken

Or just completely incompatible...




I get on with tonnes of guys. I just like the wrong ones (see above). I don't expect to find "the one" "Oh my god have babies with me". I'm not old enough I don't think. BUT someone to spend time with/all day in bed on a sunday/laugh at wrong stuff/chat bollocks/give me his coat when I'm cold...sleep next to at night......

Im a firm believer that theres someone out there for everyone, hell theres enough of us lol! I wouldnt worry to much loz, you'll meet someone when you least expect it and WHAM!

[Ed]

Originally Posted by Lozzie

Well...update. I've come to the conclusion...that blokes are:


Complete arese hole head fucks

Complete stalker-over keen-makes me wanna run out of the door...No ta.

Taken

Or just completely incompatible...




I get on with tonnes of guys. I just like the wrong ones (see above). I don't expect to find "the one" "Oh my god have babies with me". I'm not old enough I don't think. BUT someone to spend time with/all day in bed on a sunday/laugh at wrong stuff/chat bollocks/give me his coat when I'm cold...sleep next to at night......

Lozzer, can you not post exactly what I think all the time? Its making me feel mute.



Actually since posting this I'm honestly feeling like I don't need anyone at the minute, probably for the first time in my life at 33. Am quite happy with myself really. Sharing life with someone is lovely for all the reasons Lozzie lists above, I'd say the thing I miss most is giving someone a nice cuddle on a cold morning and a kiss as I get up. That makes me happier than anything else else in the world. Or waking up first and seeing someone all asleep and peaceful.

The last person I met I was positve I had I future with, never been so sure about anyone. What I discovered was so odd I'm still pinching myself I could have been so deluded! Back to the drawing board!

[Lozzie]

Originally Posted by Ed

Actually since posting this I'm honestly feeling like I don't need anyone at the minute

Yeah me either (deffo know it's not good to go looking, and refuse to do it...fate and all that crap)


But you meet people don't you

Bloke- "Can I have you're number???"

Lozzie - Hope he's normal

Bloke text (before lozzie has got home from place where numbers were exchanged) "Hi yeah, hope we can go out. Just let me know"

Second text (before Ive got home-yes another) HELLO!

Third text - Hello!!!


*This was the point when and read the texts, AND when I decided to delete all texts and thus rid myself of the number

Then he sent me another one...a week later "I take it you don't want to come out then???

FFS NO!

Or you give ur number to a guy...and thru experience (Ive met alot of head fucks) You realise they're wankers before you even make the call!

I'm gonna hybernate, it's not lack of people...it's quality not quantity that would be pleasant!

Miss Say say...Im not worried...it's just I meet blokes all the time, and have to sift thru alot of crap.... JEEEEEEEES.

Note to self: Don't give out number to randoms lololololol

[Ed]

Originally Posted by Lozzie

Yeah me either (deffo know it's not good to go looking, and refuse to do it...fate and all that crap)


Note to self: Don't give out number to randoms lololololol

Think you may have cracked it there Sherlock.

Hmmm fate. Its such an interesting thing. i guess all you can do is be open.

Best of luck Loz.

[Ed]

Originally Posted by Miss C

He's the author of 'Journey of Souls' and 'Destiny of Souls', the latter i'm reading at the moment, his research is amazing, theres too much stuff to go into, but its so interesting, it might help answer some of your questions if you ever get chance to read either book, it does include explanations for dreams/relationship karma that you've mentioned, and much much more stuff.

Deepak Chopra's work is good too boffin head

I just rattled through Journey of Souls in about 2 days. Very interesting stuff. Gonna get the other one for my trip to Japan. As a firm believer in re incarnation I have to say a lot of it didn't surprise me at all, in fact some of it seemed really familiar from the Tibetan stuff I've read. Great recommendation Cheryl, thanks.

Try 'Zen mind, Beginner's mind' by Shunryu Suzuki