non-marital anniversarys

[Miss C]

Originally Posted by jenwah

well see, this is the thing, have been seein a guy for bout 3 weeks........and we first kissed exactly 3 weeks ago, so......if it does carry on the way it is, and gets serious, then i would prob go off the date off 3 weeks ago.

lol........but i have no idea whether or not we are official........he asked me had a been seein anyone else....and i havent, and he told me he hasnt.......but i always worry bout makin an assumption and it not bein official, but then what if i make a move for someone else and it is official....if ya know what i mean haha

am off t see him now actually, as we have both jus finished work

Ahh bless, you should weave it into conversation & see what he thinks. Have fun

[Lozzie]

Originally Posted by jenwah

well see, this is the thing, have been seein a guy for bout 3 weeks........and we first kissed exactly 3 weeks ago, so......if it does carry on the way it is, and gets serious, then i would prob go off the date off 3 weeks ago.

lol........but i have no idea whether or not we are official........he asked me had a been seein anyone else....and i havent, and he told me he hasnt.......but i always worry bout makin an assumption and it not bein official, but then what if i make a move for someone else and it is official....if ya know what i mean haha

am off t see him now actually, as we have both jus finished work

I think you're thinking too much Jen!!!!! Just talk to him!!! Ask him all these things that your head will NEVER answer!!!!! Hope he's lovely!!!

[jenwah]

Originally Posted by Lozzie

I think you're thinking too much Jen!!!!! Just talk to him!!! Ask him all these things that your head will NEVER answer!!!!! Hope he's lovely!!!

yeah lozzie he is lovely!!! and since he said he hasnt been wit anyone or seen anyone since seein me, i think we are an item (and something he said t me this mornin)

but.....am doin what i do best anyway........"wingin it" haha

he is managin to make me smile a hell of a lot!!! so i'm happy as it is

[jenwah]

Originally Posted by Miss C

Have fun

haha i did

[Lozzie]

Originally Posted by jenwah

haha i did

You're a filth bag to the Max jennifer. (only kidding, get yours girl !!!!)

[looloo05]

i dunno well i got wiv my boyf on the 17th dec at our wrks xmas doo, well thts were we had our 1st kiss n class ourselves as a couple so thts our anniversary

[li'l Sonz]

well, i dont class it from when me and butty were "foolin around" coz we both knew it was just a bit o fun at first, even when we first kissed. I class it from when we discussed it and said, yeh, we're ready for it to be serious, no-one else etc etc. (nov-i no the date but not tellin coz i want butty to work it out!! ha ha!)

I agree with cheryl, I think u need a convo like that for there to be no confusion, coz if one of u y'no, does somet, with someone else and the other person is thinkin its serious n stuff then thats no good. Not necessarily like "will u go out with me?" but like.... "what are we, where do we stand??"

Communication is the key in situations like this. Just ask!!!

[beaker]

Hehe, we have had this conversation a last week lol. And we decided it was to be the first time we arranged to meet/kiss would be our anniversary
Although he did properly ask me to be his "steady girlfriend" bless, at mesh's birthday doo a month later

We had our proper first date on friday last week, lol . He opened all the doors, bought me flowers.... I felt like a princess

Hope all goes well for ya jen

[Bubbles]

I have been with lee for 5 years in august we met in the march but wasnt really an item till august we have never had an anniversary tho

[Vickles]

For me it's deffo when it became "official"

I know what you mean though if you haven't had the talk of it becoming official and you're just "seeing" each other. Hate that term me define seeing someone???? You never know where you stand

[jenwah]

yeah i kinda know what ya mean.....if ya want more then someone says ya seein eachother..........it kinda p(i)sses u off......

but t b fair, i have never realy had closure on any of my relationships, i jus knew at the time that we was together, and didnt want anyone else, and t b honest.......i'm not really interested in anyone else now........so i aint really gonna b cheatin on anyone even if i was under the impression that we wasnt an item....if ya get what i mean