They went and did it without me:(

[Northern Star]

After all the messing about regarding the scattering of my mums ashes......they went ahead and did it without me

My brother txt me to say that aunty maureen (mums sister) was picking him up at 2pm sat afternoon........now i explained that i had no car as the blooming thing broke down on thurs afternoon and still in the garage as i speak.... and the cemetary is far away from where i live so couldnt get there

None of them offered to pick me up and none of them contacted me i thought that maybe under the circumstances that one of them would have helped me out but NO!!!!!

How disgusting is that......they have blown it big with me now.......i no longer want speak or see any of them again (which suits me fine really)

[nics]

awww debs im gutted for ya, did you not manage to even sort some of the ashes out for yourself????

i know you wasnt arsed about your family and stuff and you didnt realy want to see ur family or even go the cemetery, but it would of been nice to be asked and have the choice to say no

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by nics

awww debs im gutted for ya, did you not manage to even sort some of the ashes out for yourself????

i know you wasnt arsed about your family and stuff and you didnt realy want to see ur family or even go the cemetery, but it would of been nice to be asked and have the choice to say no

Its just another example of not being welcome Nics hun......nothing changes ive had this on both sides of the family For as long as i can remember and all through no fault of my own, ah well its ok what goes around comes around...they will at some point need me for sumthing, too which i will have great pleasure in telling them to piss off

[S-J]

Awwww debbs that's proper fcukin s*it!! I'm so very sorry to read this....

Babe, you have been an absolute tower of strength for me last week, so I cant tell you enough, but if you and your kid need anything at all, well you know where I be!

Thinking of you....

S-J x

[glazzy]

I'm gutted for you I don't really know what else to say but it's a terrible thing they have done to you.


jayne x

[ilovepiano]

That is so wrong...

Big cyber-hug heading your way

[cam]

jesus hun thats plain wrong, no wonder you feel that way !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

really sorry to hear that

[Northern Star]

Thanks for the hugs and kind words peeps......its nothing i didnt expect tbh...the minute i lost my mum i knew that was that for the rest of the family cus the only person who made me feel remotely part of that side of the family was my mum Go Figure....

Im not too upset about the fact that i didnt get to see the ashes bein done cus i know for a fact that that wasnt what mum wouldve wanted, shed have hated it........and at the end of the day i can still have her in my head where evr i or she may be

its the fact that they have blatantly arranged this without me and done nothing to help me out in getting there........its disgusting really...... and i take great pleasure in not allowing them anywhere near me any more......just hope i bump into them at sum point cus they will get a piece of my mind......so will my brother too when i speak to him nxt

[featherlash]

Debs i am so sorry to read this my heart go,s out to you flower take care and im thinking of you petal

[Judderz]

Sorry to hear Debs, best thing is just cut the fcukers dead, as for your brother, stern words are in order

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by Judderz

Sorry to hear Debs, best thing is just cut the fcukers dead, as for your brother, stern words are in order

Is right m8......thats if i speak to him he hasnt even txt me to let me know how it all went......ive been made out to be the one in the wrong in all this

im well pissed off.......peole always mess me about (well family anyway) then i get the shit as per usual..... im mean wtf was i sposed to do walk for 2 1/2 in the rain dont think so but oh no...thats not good enough for them is it....grrr bunch of asswipes

[stee]

Sorry to hear that Debs.

Just pretend that the selfish twats don't even exsist now.

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by stee

Sorry to hear that Debs.

Just pretend that the selfish twats don't even exsist now.

Who, what lol

[Saysay]

Oh god debs, thats just so awful, how selfish of them to not include your feelings and thoughts on this, you poor thing, i can't imagine how upset you must be. ..and after all you were planning aswell Absolutley no consideration for what your mum would have wanted to. Family eh!!!

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by Miss saysay

Family eh!!!

Your right there babes

No family o mine i tell ya.....people say u cant chose ur family and that much is true...but when a large part of the so called family make ur life a misery for such a long period in ur life it begs the question im i better off with out them.......i say in this instance defo yes...i have certain people i cant count on thats enough for me