They went and did it without me:(

[eve]

really gutted for ya hun.... but you got a good family on here and we're always about when ya need us

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by eve

.... but you got a good family on here and we're always about when ya need us

heheheeh Eve thats the understatement of the century Mwah

[eve]

Originally Posted by Northern Star

heheheeh Eve thats the understatement of the century Mwah

mmwwahh right back at ya hun

[Phil]

Aww, that's awful. Really awful. Like said above, just cut them out the next time they need your support / advice on something. Chin up. Best wishes,

P & D x

[fugjostle]

I'm really sorry for you !!!

Not that its any help now but as I understand it you are legally in control of the situation. Not sure if there's any criminal law been broken but only next of kin (and thats means children) can state what is done with the ashes. Unless your brother gave consent (or there was a will) then they have done a bad thing and if no law was broken you can take the fecker down the civil route and claim damages?? One way to get em back anyhoots.

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by fugjostle

I'm really sorry for you !!!

Not that its any help now but as I understand it you are legally in control of the situation. Not sure if there's any criminal law been broken but only next of kin (and thats means children) can state what is done with the ashes. Unless your brother gave consent (or there was a will) then they have done a bad thing and if no law was broken you can take the fecker down the civil route and claim damages?? One way to get em back anyhoots.

Hmmm not sure on the consent chick.....my brother being there may be considered consent eh

Dunno about taking it that far either.....would cause a big stink.....ill just leave them to it but i have to say id love to pay the bastards back

tis alright ill get mine in the end

cheers fuggy

Originally Posted by phil

Aww, that's awful. Really awful. Like said above, just cut them out the next time they need your support / advice on something. Chin up. Best wishes,

P & D x

chin is well and truly up hun cheers......hope you are both well much love and kisses

[RetroAndy]

Been reading this all day in between breaks and i must say debs its bang out of order hun

your best off without them lot. Am suprised at your bro though thought he would have been more considerate

Hope ya well and see you out soon

Andy

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by RetroAndy

Am suprised at your bro though thought he would have been more considerate

Hope ya well and see you out soon

Andy

Aye babe im good ta......im well surprised at my bro too....cus im now getting the impression that he is ignoring me see this is what happens they muck me about and dont include me then i get the blame for everything....wheres the fekkin justice......im just pissed he hasnt even let me know what happened....he will be pissed at me for not goin but i think a 2 1/2 hr walk in the rain is too much to ask when he got picked up.....no one even offered to come for me and they all drive, tight gets eh

well im defo pushing them aside for my no1 family hun...thats u lot

[sgt.lead]

Bastards,bloods thicker than water che.....only sometimes,so sorry to hear that sweetie big hug from me,thats two hug credits you`ve got now to cash in at hazy chin up babe don`t let the bastards grind ya down!!!

[looloo05]

awwwwwwwww lots of hugs!!!!!
i remember i cudnt go 2 ireland 2 spread my uncles ashes coz i was 2 ickle so iv got some of his ashes in my locket close to my heart!!

[Katoosh]

Debs, Haaauuuge hugs and all my thoughts are with you! I don't know how you keep picking yourself up

You are such a kind and generous person people are lucky to know you, which is why I cannot quite believe what I have just read in this post . I am sorry that your family will miss out on everything you have to give. Tis good to know that you will be fine because your friends will keep you safe

[milenko/]

but like people say, what goes around comes around .

keep soldiering on and keep smiling

[Northern Star]

This is why i come on here and talk to u guys......

You are my reason for smiling if i have nothing else the fact i have u guys is enough

Big up the OSA gang......cus ur all f**kin tops

[Phil]

Awww, feel the love in this room eh!?!?!

Originally Posted by Northern Star

This is why i come on here and talk to u guys......

You are my reason for smiling if i have nothing else the fact i have u guys is enough

Big up the OSA gang......cus ur all f**kin tops

[ScouseCol]

debs that's bad that don't let it get ya down, you know you've done nothing wrong and let nobody down. you have certainly not let your mum down. to me, it looks like the rest of your family have thou. I'm sure your mam wouldn't be too happy with them either.

all you need to know is, she loved you you loved her and still do. thats never gonna change. it's what's in ya heart babes. a ceramony doesn't make any difference to that. and thats somethin nobody can take away from you.

i don't have any alligence to my family apart from my mam, dad and sister. after them my mates come next. basically cause i know my mates better than them and they'd be there for me way before any of them would and I'd go to my mates aid before the family. in fact, i probably wouldn't piss on half of my family of they was on fire, i don't even know what half of em look like. lol