do u believe in love at first sight?

[XValentinadobeX]

right people havent done a thread for a while now so i want ur views on whether u believe in love at first sight (soulmate together forever) , whether uv experienced it or do u think its just the over rated lust factor that always ends in disaster ?
ooooh im in a soppy mood today dont ask!! iot might never happen
me is wonderin if ya can fall for a person be4 u actually meet them

[dj_jam]

yup....im nearlly married

[ilovepiano]

Yeah, I reckon.

[AB45]

I say yes

Been with my partner for seventeen years now and knew i would straight away. Wasnt a 'cor look at her' kinda thing (even though i do look at her that way) just got on extremely well and i was fascinated by her.

Now ive got her trained to do the dishes and cook me dinner its almost perfect - lol (had to add that bit for my manly integrity with the lads)

[The Biggster]

I believe in LUST at first sight, but how the feck can anyone LOVE anyone just by physical appearance, I think you Need to know how a persons 'plumbing' Works. what turns thems on and what they can give you.

[TK TONNY]

I think lust is the first thing.
But you can tell pretty quick wether the person is a keeper or not.

Wot i do know for certain is as SOON as you stop looking for miss/mr right, up they pop, and like buses theirs always 2 to chose from.

[STEADMANSCOTT]

Originally Posted by XValentinadobeX

right people havent done a thread for a while now so i want ur views on whether u believe in love at first sight (soulmate together forever) , whether uv experienced it or do u think its just the over rated lust factor that always ends in disaster ?
ooooh im in a soppy mood today dont ask!! iot might never happen
me is wonderin if ya can fall for a person be4 u actually meet them

I HAVE, JUST FOLLOW UR HEART! IF ITS MENT 2 BE ITS MENT TO BE!

U'L NO

[Katoosh]

I definitely believe in this even though have not experienced this myself. However, I gain inspiration from one of my bestest friends who is now with the man who has fulfilled her life. There is hope for us all lolol

[Tigger]

I believe in wanting to jump someones bones the second you clap eyes on them - if you subsequently find you actually get on quite well with them after, well then you can start factoring love into the equation!

[nathan]

twaddle what an oxymoron. jesus how can you love someone you've never spoken to. Its when you get to like things about them little quirks etc. there is lust and then there is love. blimey

[spiely]

I think what XValentinadobeX is asking is can two human beings share a soul. Is there one person you are drawn towards throughtout your life, but alas nevermeet?
When two energies unite - it just feels right
Connecting on a spiritual and metaphysical level with a soulmate.

If thats not what your asking then i withdraw my previous statement for being too boring.

[AB45]

Originally Posted by nathan

twaddle what an oxymoron. jesus how can you love someone you've never spoken to. Its when you get to like things about them little quirks etc. there is lust and then there is love. blimey

I agree when its put black and white like that mate but i when i met me missus its was wierd. Been with many women and for some reason this was different, love afs, not sure if id say that but the desire to know her not shag her was the predominant factor that made me feel so different about her than anyone else i had met. I can honestly say lust was there but put to the back as i didnt want it to get in the way (for the time being lol)

F**k me i gotta stop readin cosmoplitan!

lol

[Super Freak]

im a firm belvier in LUST at first sight. but not love, love take time and room to grow

[lippiatte]

yes absolutely, but only at those topless bars.

[stuck in Aahz]

You can certainly become very interested at first site, and maybe even feel that little tug at your heart as you stare at that new found beauty for the first time. No way does love enter the picture though until you find out more about a person than what they look like sitting across the table. You've got no clue what that person is like until you have some deep talks. Falling in love is a slow process, and should be to be fully enjoyed. Those who take it too fast are missing the point.