Man Vs Woman

[Northern Star]

Originally Posted by doolz

aye trust is the thing that go's

funny dont think any of me male m8s are cheaters but i know plenty wimmin who are

Hey you.....Dont tar us all with the same brush.....

I have been cheated on many a time but never look back and just get on with it......

[misstickle]

Originally Posted by Amelie

Classifications are important, classifications are required for a number of reasons. If we did not class ourselves male or female for example then we would have unisex changing rooms at schools, this is problamatic straight away on a number of ethical issues re privacy. Plus we would not have well women clincs that are geared at improving the health of a 'classification', funding would not be allocated to specific 'classifications' that have been shown to be in the highest need.


Classification and stigmatisation are two seperate things, stigma is a negative label of someone for a myriad of reasons, put on a classification by individuals who do not understand the situation, usually for an undesirable quality or feature such as disability. For example an individual could be classified as HIV Positive, and then society would add the stigma off sexual promiscuity onto this classification. The problem is not with classification but with stigma. It has never been suggested in any of my posts that i put stigma on any sexual grouping, merely adressed sexual classification.


I have no problem with women expressing thier sexuality freely, as long as its honest and not degrading to women as a whole. If you actually read what i put, i said that to put on a show for men and feel the need to act a forced sexual way for attention its degrading, again i did not mention bi or lesbian women doing in public what straight individuals do, only fake lesbians.


Amelie xxxx

Wow this debate's getting kinda heated. I didn't mean to upset you, as my post wasn't a personal attack on your opinions, a lot of it was actually a reply to other people's views.

The reason, however, I initiated this debate is because when you originally bought up the subject I assumed it was a dig on Roz's (Sexipussi) signature (which displays me and her kissing). When we initially joined the sight, it was for our own humour (hence the silly names Misstickle and sexipussi) we didn't think we'd make friends or even fall in love, or be having serious debates. It was all just a laugh. My point is, the signature Roz displays was not for anyone elses amusement, purly our own, the same as when we kiss publically or privately!

From reading what you've put, I don't believe now you were having a pop, just voicing your opinion, I think!!

I understand what you're saying about classification, and yes it is important in many ways, and definately important to many people for reason's you've already stated. The reason I take classifications so lightly is because I find it hard to classify myself in life, not just sexually, but politically, class based and religiously. I'm a contradiction to them all and so are many people I know.

I think we're going to have to agree to disagree on the whole "fake lesbian" argument of getting it on for purely a mans pleasure but I don't think I got across excatly what I meant the first time. I know you never used "Slag" or any other derogatory term towards women in your post, but my whole purpose for using them within the same sentence was to show, that when we as women start to undermine other womens actions, it gives some men an excuse to degrade them as a sexual tool. Even if all women stopped wearing short skirts and snogging other girls to get a men's attention, the men would still try and find some way to "get a bit of action"

I don't believe that any adult expression of sexuality (unless it's hurting someone ) undermines women or men. But I think this is again where we both disagree.

I totally respect your opinion, and hope you understand mine to as I sometimes find it hard to articulate exactly what I mean and end up waffling!!!
Let's not fall out and become sworn OSA enemies Truce?!

Peace out!!!

[cam]

Truce my arse, become enemies, it make good reading this

[STEADMANSCOTT]

who cheated??

[Noz]

Originally Posted by STEADMANSCOTT

u chat the biggest shit ever! ur not a les so be quiet! lol

u makin me piss wiv all this! what happened to i never wana man?

as for mistickle ur 100% into men so stop play actin aswel

and for the both of you if u r les' lets see some evidence and not shitty pics og u kissin ur antie (foa pussy) @ a family doo which u have on ur signature!!!



Joking girls just like to play hahahahaaa who cares if u's r anyway

Here ya go STEADMAN.....

[Amelie]

Originally Posted by misstickle

Wow this debate's getting kinda heated. I didn't mean to upset you, as my post wasn't a personal attack on your opinions, a lot of it was actually a reply to other people's views.

I totally respect your opinion, and hope you understand mine to as I sometimes find it hard to articulate exactly what I mean and end up waffling!!!
Let's not fall out and become sworn OSA enemies Truce?!

Peace out!!!

As a true lover of discussion and all it entails i would never make an enemy of another with a different view, thats what makes us so unique- and facilitates good debates like this every once in a while. Hell i used to be on the debating team for my college, and often spent hours discussing the side of a debate that i did not actually agree with, say the right to fox hunt

So no grudges held my end, infact is been fun getting the old synapses connecting again

[cam]

Originally Posted by Amelie

So no grudges held my end, infact is been fun getting the old synapses connecting again

exactly so why end it ???

you should hear what miss tickles been saying to me in PM about you I was shocked

[Amelie]

Originally Posted by cam

exactly so why end it ???

you should hear what miss tickles been saying to me in PM about you I was shocked

Lol i doubt it, despite a few differences of opinion i am thinking like me she is a woman with integrity and decorum so stop shit stirring!

[cam]

Originally Posted by Amelie

Lol i doubt it, despite a few differences of opinion i am thinking like me she is a woman with integrity and decorum so stop shit stirring!

Shit stiring me im astounded that you say that well im going to tell her what you said about her to me in PM then ill show you whos shit stirring !!!

[Amelie]

Originally Posted by cam

Shit stiring me im astounded that you say that well im going to tell her what you said about her to me in PM then ill show you whos shit stirring !!!

Go for it!

[cam]

Originally Posted by Amelie

Go for it!

mmmmmmmmmmmmm it apears my feeble attempts are exactly that eh ??? feeble

[sgt.lead]

What a thread lol...lol...lol...you ladies must have had some shit fella`s in ya time my mates used to say treat em mean keep um keen i never agreed with that method its not my style really but it seemed to work for them......whats that about?some fucker treats me mean im off

[cam]

Originally Posted by sgt.lead

What a thread lol...lol...lol...you ladies must have had some shit fella`s in ya time my mates used to say treat em mean keep um keen i never agreed with that method its not my style really but it seemed to work for them......whats that about?some fucker treats me mean im off

lolol what you like 101 pm city "please mr lead be my man"

['Shabba']

Originally Posted by sgt.lead

What a thread lol...lol...lol...you ladies must have had some shit fella`s in ya time my mates used to say treat em mean keep um keen i never agreed with that method its not my style really but it seemed to work for them......whats that about?some fucker treats me mean im off

It's all about getting the balance right, too nice is nausiating and irritating, too bad is just horrible.

[sgt.lead]

Originally Posted by cam

lolol what you like 101 pm city "please mr lead be my man"

lol...fuck off