Man Vs Woman

[Myk]

Yeah but let me just add something here :
No matter how down I feel, no matter how vunerable I may be, no matter how much "I just feel like it".....I will NEVER EVER have a snog with a bloke even it was my life-long best friend (who incidentally I would give my all for and who has risked his life time and time again for me), there is just no way it would ever "feel right".....

So I still ain't get this whole hetrosexual girls just having a quick female/female snog coz they feel like it. For gods sake if you do feel like then you ain't hetrosexual at all you are at the very least bi and living in denial.

I'm all for sexual freedom and each to their own. But please don't be living in denial coz you ain't fooling anyone except for yourself.

M.


BTW. Men vs Women....I think we break about even, somethings Men are better at, other things Women are.

[blue jammer]

Originally Posted by Myk

So I still ain't get this whole hetrosexual girls just having a quick female/female snog coz they feel like it. For gods sake if you do feel like then you ain't hetrosexual at all you are at the very least bi and living in denial.

I'm all for sexual freedom and each to their own. But please don't be living in denial coz you ain't fooling anyone except for yourself.

I *think* from what I've read/seen/heard, a lot of this sexual expression from the womenfolk is mostly fuelled by booze, they get a bit frisky, and as women bond in a way that's often closer than men, ie they openly hug each other, kiss each other on the cheek when meeting, departing, and are very tactile in general amongst themselves. It's this, I feel that makes their sexual expression an easier step for them, whereas men seem very scared of any kind of male on male contact, so as not to be seen as a big gayer or somesuch.

I remember when one of my close friends went off to Australia for 3 months, I was unsure of what the 'goodbye' would be like, so was he.. and I almost didn't go to see him off at the airport (I fucking hate goodbye's as it is anyway, they're always so bloody sad) anyway, it was a strange feeling, but we both hugged and didn't at all feel uncomfortable, but I think this was mostly due to us both knowing we'd not see each other for a few months...

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by blue jammer

I remember when one of my close friends went off to Australia for 3 months, I was unsure of what the 'goodbye' would be like, so was he.. and I almost didn't go to see him off at the airport (I fucking hate goodbye's as it is anyway, they're always so bloody sad) anyway, it was a strange feeling, but we both hugged and didn't at all feel uncomfortable, but I think this was mostly due to us both knowing we'd not see each other for a few months...

nah I see mr kip's magic workin there"" B warned huggin it's a slippery slope 2ward toein

[blue jammer]

Originally Posted by The Joker

nah I see mr kip's magic workin there"" B warned huggin it's a slippery slope 2ward toein

Mr Kip was there at the airport

Feck me, he gets about doesn't he, was he hidden with a camera like that deformed-handed-sneaky-fooker, Beadle?

Nay worries about the toein, I've never tried it, and don't want to, Mr Kip is a big sicko heh








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fiddlin, rah rah rah

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by SEXIPUSSI

so sorrrryyy 2 confuse everybody (or just u) miss joker jen, I do consider myself a lesbian as I like to fuk women?????????

I MEAN HOW ELSE WUD U DESCRIBE THAT??? PUSSI = LESBIAN??

the debate cud go on all day and nite realli couldnt it?? but u know the score jen jen.

unless I'm mistaken, lesbian is when women purely have sex with other women, correct me if I'm wrong here, but ain't u havin sex with noz, unless of course he's taken a vow of chastity, until u get married??? If u r then ain't that bi-sexual i.e. has sex with both men & women??? So u ain't a true lesbian in the strictest sense of the word r u now??? soz 2 b pedantic but u can't claim 2 b a "REAL LESBIAN" when ur havin sex with blokes on the side!

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by blue jammer

Mr Kip was there at the airport

Feck me, he gets about doesn't he, was he hidden with a camera like that deformed-handed-sneaky-fooker, Beadle?

Nay worries about the toein, I've never tried it, and don't want to, Mr Kip is a big sicko heh


fiddlin, rah rah rah

Mr kip gets everywhere, he's got eyes on stalks so I'd b careful if I was u, his main aim in life is 2 turn every1 2 toein (toein is the new dunkin), so b on ur guard m8y!!!

[northern minx]

Originally Posted by northern minx

the thing is yeah there is this whole woman/man personality divide and different ways of doing things, perceiving things etc..

but deep down - men and women
we all have the same capacity to feel hurt, pain, joy, sadness, despair, hope... we all have a fundemental wish/need to feel love and to express love.. to connect with others
we are indeed all equally vulnerable

Originally Posted by blue jammer

Spot on there

it is good to hear that someone agrees with me! especially a man!

[JohnnyPink]

Originally Posted by The Joker

Mr kip gets everywhere, he's got eyes on stalks so I'd b careful if I was u, his main aim in life is 2 turn every1 2 toein (toein is the new dunkin), so b on ur guard m8y!!!

Yeah toein rules!!!!!



PS. Boys are better than girls.

[cam]

Originally Posted by The Joker

k lets stop beatin bout the bush then cam, so tell me who does the cookin ir ur household????

I do but thats cause im the only person who can cook in the flat, however as the point your making would make me seem to be the woman of the house, im glad to see you have your priorities right about who does which job etc and cookings a birds job

['Shabba']

Originally Posted by The Joker

unless I'm mistaken, lesbian is when women purely have sex with other women, correct me if I'm wrong here, but ain't u havin sex with noz, unless of course he's taken a vow of chastity, until u get married??? If u r then ain't that bi-sexual i.e. has sex with both men & women??? So u ain't a true lesbian in the strictest sense of the word r u now??? soz 2 b pedantic but u can't claim 2 b a "REAL LESBIAN" when ur havin sex with blokes on the side!

I aint no expert on the subject but that sounds right to me.

My best buddy is lesbian and she is in a happy monogomous relationship with her girlfriend, there's no fellas in the equasion at all.

What sexipussi is describing sounds much more like bisexual swinging to me as all involved are in relationships which is fine if everyone involved is ok with that.

I couldn't do it myself though, while i'm in a relationship i just couldn't do that with anyone, not even my best mates and if i did then i'd have to have a serious think about why i was doing it.

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by cam

I do but thats cause im the only person who can cook in the flat, however as the point your making would make me seem to be the woman of the house, im glad to see you have your priorities right about who does which job etc and cookings a birds job

so u've turned in2 a bird then??????

Love it mr kip's dream has come true at last


P.S. u men always make out that cookin's a birds job, personally I cudn't careless who cooks as long as me tea's on the table when I get home from work!!

[The Joker]

Originally Posted by Shabba

I aint no expert on the subject but that sounds right to me.

My best buddy is lesbian and she is in a happy monogomous relationship with her girlfriend, there's no fellas in the equasion at all.

What sexipussi is describing sounds much more like bisexual swinging to me as all involved are in relationships which is fine if everyone involved is ok with that.

I couldn't do it myself though, while i'm in a relationship i just couldn't do that with anyone, not even my best mates and if i did then i'd have to have a serious think about why i was doing it.

cheers hun 4 confirmin wot I thought

I'm with u all the way on the monogamy front, don't know how u can b in a serious relationship (espesh considerin marriage) & want 2 sleep with sum1 else, even if it's ur best friend but each 2 their own & fair play 2 noz 4 bein so understandin, can't say I'd b able 2 b like that!!!

[cam]

This threads about men verses women, trust you women to side track the subject to evade defeat, at the end of the day, if you can cum you little clitty or nobby off by any means, i say stick it in there

never knock something unless youve tried it, or it makes you physically sick and even then if your female you should have a go anyway, youll go through a lot worse in your life at one point trust me

as for lesbians and homo's well homo's are just wrong as fuck and need shooting, there far to camp for my liking but lesbians, ( I mean porno ones ) there the fuckin dogs bollocks full blown women lesbos are butch pig uglu mother fookers, sexipussi is not a lesbo but a BI, and from all accounts shes well in touch with her sexuality and proud of it, ya gota respect that

Im pretty in touch of my sexuality as well, in fact I touched it this morning before I left for work, I watched a 1.36 GIG porn, which is now sucsessfully transfered into a hidden folder within my Quake file in my programs, you can never be too carefull with good hardcore now adays

[grad]

Originally Posted by Amelie

I could not do this, as i really have a strong belief in monogamy, for many reasons.

The main on is that as i love my partner so very much i really do not want to be intimate in anyway shape or form with anyone else, and if either of us was bi i would still class is as being unfaithfull.

To me being that intimate is something extremly personal, i have no hangups re sex in the slightest- its just as i am inlove it would really hurt me if my partner contemplted or carried out any sexual encounters with someone else- male or female. I feel it would impede on the trust that we have between us that makes us what we are, a unit.

I agree with this 100%. I tried to post something earlier but couldn't get the point across right. If you're being intimate with someone else then to me that's being unfaithful. If it's more than a laugh then it's wrong..

Not having a go at you roz, I've seen you together with noz and can see how happy you are together, if noz is cool with it then it's fine.

[blue jammer]

Originally Posted by cam

<snip>as for lesbians and homo's well homo's are just wrong as fuck and need shooting, there far to camp for my liking but lesbians,<snip>

Bit strong there cam?

You had a bad experience or sommat fella?

Just that blokes who get really agro about other gay men, always seem to have to be macho beyond a point, it's as if they're scared of it.

Reminds me of a time when a few of us had gone into the gay village, and were in Berlins, and a mate got up and went to the bog for a piss, he came running out seconds later saying "fucking hell, I can't piss in there with all them gayers watching me, I bet they're all just wanting to stare at me cock" -we laughed like loons and said "you got sommat to brag about in ya pants then eh?" lol

Not having a go or owt cam, just your reaction seemed rather strong.