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Originally Posted by Shooms  ... it's down to individual personality & that undefinable ability to either 'click' or not as the case may be... 
It's great to have a wide range of friends too (of both sexes) so no matter what the circumstances (be it football hooliganism, watching Phantom of the Opera, snorting your own vomit etc etc) there's always someone special in your life that you can share it with  |
euww, lmao
well said Shooms too... that 'clicking' thing is important to me , most people I'm closest to I've clicked with from the word go
Generally , my closest mates are lads (excepy Sam, lol) I'm not really a girly girl so guess that could be why I get on with lads better as a general rule of thumb. Maybe its coz of my brothers I'm comfy round lads, I dunno
I find with lads its usually easier to be totally straight with eachother / say what you mean without causing offence / making someone crumble. I'd feel a bit more mean telling it liike it is to a girl sometimes, lol.
That said , thats how me and Sam operate too - being very frank / honest with eachother , but then she's not a girly girl either.
As has been said, whatever sex they are, if their personality / outlook etc.. appeal to me then thats that, dont give a hoot what bits they posess
Its peopel who make me laugh til I cry, and are genuine who I really take to
As far as partners go, I find it hard to relate to being with someone who I dont also consider one of my best friends as well as a partner
to me there has to be strong friendship aspect there too to be a big building block or the relationship.
Actually, no...fook it...I hate everybody, people are twatting twats
j/k lol