sussed it cheers though fella
I had to install some raid drivers from the boot CD and copy them to a floppy and F6 them in order for the intel chip to work, then #I could set my CD as master and HDD as slave and boot up and install windows
im totally fucked off now though trying to install SP2
its just frozen once whilst I tried to install it and its getting late and I want to install battlefiled 2 and play it with my new PCI Card
so looks like im not going on line tonight.